Let’s stop blaming kids.
The real problem is parenting.
Today’s parenting is built on convenience, not responsibility.
Whenever a child cries, we distract. Whenever they get bored, we hand over a screen.
That’s not parenting—that’s avoidance.
Children are not supposed to be comfortable all the time.
Growth comes from discomfort.
- Waiting builds patience
- Failure builds resilience
- Boredom builds creativity
But modern parenting removes all of it.
Result?
Kids who:
- Can’t sit still
- Can’t focus
- Can’t handle “no”
You’re not raising a child. You’re raising dependency.
Fix it:
- Stop over-entertaining
- Allow struggle
- Encourage independent play
That’s how real development happens.